Aphorisms:


May 7, 2009
If I were to present you yesterday
     I will erase all traces of bitterness and misunderstandings
If I were to present you today
     I will add the warmth and feelings that will make you want to embrace this day forever
If I were to present you a tomorrow
     I will fill it with the heart-warming surprises that will fulfill all of your long-cherished wishes and more.

July 26, 2008
Are shadows any less real than their sources/alter-egos?

November 18, 2007
We often do not realize that there is literally a fine line separtating
     the reachable from the unreachable, the doable from the undoable.

November 18, 2007
What is distant but an illusion that often appears more real than reality itself
     because we nurture and supplement it.

April 1, 2007
Not every success is earned
     not every failure deserved.
amader protyek safolyo orjito noy,
     jemon protyek byarthota noy amader nyajjyo paona

March 17, 2007
The past is a dream,
     the future is the only reality.
kaal chhilo na, sudhu kaal achhey
November 18, 2006
Love is sometimes focused
     when reciprocated it flows in a torrent in the channel that shapes it
Others are egoistic
     as they lose their way without appreciation,
     avoiding contact and exposure and seeking refuge in a subterranean world,
And then there are those that are magnanimous
     overflowing their banks, reaching for the horizons
     changing the landscape and turning fertile anything they touch
kichhu bhalobasa ekmukhhi, saathi khunje paay
     srotoswini hoye tar adharer gondi mene chhute chole
aabege aapluto kichhu bhalobasaa atmomogno
     poth khunje na peye gumre more, morur majhe ontohsolila hoy
kichhu bhalobasa udaar
     dukul chhapiye plabon ane, jake chhony take urbor kore tole

November 5, 2006
Even if I cannot uproot myself,
     I can still shed my leaves to welcome a new lease of life.
shikor hoyto oprate pari na,
     kintu pata jhoriye rikto, nissyo hoye notun praan'ke boron korte pari

November 4, 2006
We are like trees
     for we cannot thrive in the shadow of others
And the strong wind and the scorching sun and the bitter cold
     only tests our mettle, shapes our nature, and helps us grow.
amra onek'ta gachheder moto
     onyer chhayay barte pari na
tai khola akasher niche darun taape, teebro haowar jore, sheeter hime
     amra mushre na pore tejiyan hoi, matha unchu kore danrate sikhi

October 7, 2006
Would I rather be like the
sun, ever eager to reach out and touch new horizons,
     sharing my exuberance and energy with one and all
     while emptying myself at each step, or like the
earth, picture-perfect and a healing sight to the weary from a distance,
     but full of strife, turmoil, and unrest up close,
     lost somewhere between my origin and my destination, or like the
stars, brilliant, luminescent, beautiful, and mesmerizing,
     but always beyond reach, everyone's neighbor, but no one's friend
     a denizen of another world, or like the
moon, barren but tranquil, imperfect but welcoming, bearing the impressions of the ages
     starkly visible for the world to observe and respect, accepting graciously my role as a mere sidekick,
     but providing you a soothing glow to relieve the dreary darkness,
     a trusted, silent, undemanding companion in your empty, lonely hours
     and at peace with myself and the world.

September 29, 2006
At times it is necessary to take a step back --
     to create space, to discover new possibilities, to renew relationships, to allow progress.

September 11, 2006
Perhaps only once or twice in a lifetime do we want something so badly
     that everything else seems inconsequential or insignificant.
jibone hoyto du-ek baar amra kono kichhu etota chai
je ar sob kichhu, ar sob paowa okinchitkor, oprasongik mone hoy

September 2, 2006
As I cannot stem the flow of time,
     I would rather ride its waves
     than sink in its depths
somoyer dharake jokhon bendhe rakhte parbo na
     tokhon nischol theke tar gobhire toliye jabo na
     borong tar sroter sathe palla diye dheu theke dheu'e mete uthbo

September 1, 2006
Death gives a new lease of life to forgotten memories.
bismrito oteeter nobojonmo dekhi mrityur pote
August 29, 2006
Science helps me understand the world, the arts allow me to celebrate it.
     -- a lover of the arts and the sciences
bigyan amake prithibita chenay, shilpo diye ami prithibitake bhalobasi
     -- shilpo ar bigyaner ek onuraagi

August 24, 2006
The spectre of loneliness evokes fear
     but the irresistible lure of solitude enraptures my soul.
ekakityer shunyotake bhoy paai
tobu nissongotar amogh akorshon amar hridoy-mon apluto kore

August 18, 2006
The bumps on the road may cause discomfort
     but makes life more interesting.

August 16, 2006
A life is worth to the extent of risks it has taken
     risk of acting rather than reacting
     risk of standing out rather than fitting in
     risk of treading new grounds rather than living in a shell

August 13, 2006
When I am close to you, my restless mind blinds my senses
I avoid your eyes and ignore my love
But when I am alone, I find you in my heart
And then I die a thousand deaths thinking of how I had hurt you
     and wish you would know that you are my life
jokhon tomar kachhey jai, osthir hoi,
     tomar drishti eRai, amar prem'ke opomaan kori
jokhon ekla hoi, tokhon amar prem socchar hoy, tomaay aapon kore pai, bhalobasi
     tomake koshto debar smriti peeRa dey, aakul hoi tomate bileen hobar jonyo

August 12, 2006
I can walk away from the passion of your kiss
     but not from the longing in your eyes.
ami tomar chumboner modirotake upekkha korte pari
tomar bheja chokher arti'ke noy

August 11, 2006
You are lovely when you look beautiful,
     and even more so otherwise
tumi jokhon oporup tokhon tumi sundor,
onno somoy oporup sundor

August 8, 2006
Let us not overlook the present
     and wish for the past in the future
Rather, live the present
     so that in the future we will celebrate the past
Aaj'ke bhule pechhone takiye honchot khabo na
borong aaj poth cholbo jate agaami kaal oteet'ke mone pore

August 5, 2006
I walk alone, but footsteps are my guides
ami path choli eka
     tobu paayer chinhora amar dishari

August 4, 2006
To give is to receive and to love is to be loved     
diye paai, bhalobese bhalobasa kuroi
August 3, 2006
Every breath of my love is a song and a sigh
amar premer proti niswase ekta sur achhey
     ar achhey ekta dirghoswas

August 2, 2006
When you hate me, I hate myself
But when you love me, I love the world
tumi jokhon amaay ghrina koro
     ami nijeke ghrina kori
kintu tumi jokhon amaay bhalobaso
     tokhon ami prithibike bhalobasi

© Sandip Sen